Well, I spent 2 hours of my life that I'll never get back at the AMC -Phipps Plaza theater watching the Tyler Perry move "Temptation". Yeah, I did it because I was bored and wanted to avoid rush hour chaos that Atlanta is renowned for. Anyways, yeah that movies was "slick" but not in a good way about how they wanted to portray HIV as a disease of punishment. The movies main character was initially in love with her husband but was "tempted" by a rich man to engage and give into the temptation of lust. Blah, blah, blah...
Basically, Perry wrote the ending to show that if you cheat on your spouse HIV is the punishment you deserve. Meanwhile, I'm sitting here screwface about this movie because although I don't have HIV, I have been in a relationship with someone that had HIV. I know for a fact that the disease known as HIV does not discriminate, and many have contracted it from monogamous relationships. The fact that Perry decided to use this as a wedge issue is just plain shameful.
I'll express more later...
The discussion of social issues and happenings across the South (sometimes the nation). Along with some rants about things such as the media (radio, TV, and internet), music, etc. from a socially progressive yet politically independent perspective.
Monday, April 8, 2013
Saturday, March 30, 2013
LOL
Paint me as unimpressed with the typical reaction of aversive biased white Alabamians reacting to Alabama House Representative Joe Mitchell's comments to the northern Jefferson County resident, Eddie Maxwell when he wrote his letter to state house representatives warning them to not to even attempt to draft a gun control bill in the Alabama legislature. *The audacity and arrogance of this man alone deserves reprisal*
Anyways, Mitchell responded in due regard by reading that motherfucker for the filth and then some. I mean he read his ass...
Also the Birmingham News' website and its comment section is perpetrating allowing individuals that share this entitled and myopic philosophy a way to pretend to be faux victims via this incident. This is why Alabama is held back because so many white Alabamians whine and dramatize things that almost never happen like this but ignores the true inequities like how majority black school districts are underfunded by the archaic Alabama Constitution along with other institutionalized measures. So pathetic.
From: Eddie MaxwellMitchell responded at first with response of the nature of why are you worried about this when shit has gotten real for years for black Alabamians...
Sent: Sunday, January 27, 2013 10:54 PM
To: (all members of state legislature)
Subject: Gun Control and our Constitutions
Can the officers of our state government change our constitution when the change is forbidden by the people? The Supreme Court of Alabama has ruled that it cannot in an opinion dealing with another matter where change is forbidden. You have sworn to support our constitution. You have defined a violation of an oath in an official proceeding as a class C felony (C.O.A. Section 13A-10-101 Perjury in the first degree).
Do not violate your oath of office by introducing additional gun control bills or by allowing those already enacted to remain in the body of our laws.
From: Representative Joseph MitchellMaxwell then responded with a "how dare you...because I have a black friend and my daddy helped blacks...."
Sent: Sunday, January 27, 2013 11:59 PM
To: Eddie Maxwell
cc: (all members)
Subject: Re: Gun Control and our Constitutions
Hey man. You have used the word ‘except’ when I think you mean somethin’ else.
Hey man. Your folk never used all this sheit to protect my folk from your slave-holding, murdering, adulterous, baby-raping, incestuous, snaggle-toothed, backward-a**ed, inbreed, imported criminal-minded kin folk. You can keep sending me stuff like you have however because it helps me explain to my constituents why they should protect that 2nd amendment thing AFTER we finish stocking up on spare parts, munitions and the like.
Bring it. As one of my friends in the Alabama Senate suggested – “BRING IT!!!!”
JOSEPHm, a prepper (’70-’13)
Mobile County
From: Eddie Maxwell
Sent: Monday, February 11, 2013 2:23 PM
To: Representative Joseph Mitchell
cc: (all members)
Subject: Re: Gun Control and our Constitutions
Rep. Mitchell and other members of the Legislature of Alabama,
That’s not the type of reply I expect to receive from a state legislator. The lack of response to your racist comments from your fellow members speaks volumes about the state of our legislature as a whole.
I’m not a racist and I find your reply to be especially offensive considering the position you hold.
My parents and grandparents taught me to love God and my fellow man as myself. My father was threatened by members of his church back in 1954 for inviting a black family to attend the church he pastored.
My father-in-law was threatened when he hired a young negro man to work in his shop back in 1968 in a community where several neighbors were members of the Ku Klux Klan. He didn’t allow those threats to keep him from treating people of all races equally.
In 1969, I was a draftee in the US Army and bunked with a young negro man named Earl Shinholster at Fort Benning. Earl later became a prominent leader of the NAACP back home in Georgia after serving with me in the Army. When I received numerous racist threats from negroes who knew I lived near Birmingham, Earl warned me of the knives they carried and cautioned me to be more careful around them. Earl had been watching me and he had come to know and respect me for my Christian values. Earl and I became friends and he helped me get through some tough times there.
Racism is not exclusive to my own people. I learned that before 1955. It is just as ugly now as it was then, regardless of the race of the person who is consumed by it.
I love my country and my state, and I vowed to support and defend our constitutions. I expect you and all of our representative to do the same.
Sincerely,
Eddie Maxwell
Anyways, Mitchell responded in due regard by reading that motherfucker for the filth and then some. I mean he read his ass...
From: Representative Joseph MitchellMeanwhile, House Representative Patricia Todd of Birmingham, also the only openly gay member of the Alabama Legislature responded with this:
Sent: Wednesday, February 13, 2013 5:09 PM
To: Eddie Maxwell
cc: (all members)
Subject: Re: Gun Control and our Constitutions
Eddie. I grew up in Albany Ga. I was a military brat for most of my youth. Air Jump Master and DI USMC. Because I preference my issues with the values that I learned in ‘the heat of battle’ during the mid-fifties through the ‘70’s and into today might tell you what and who I am. I find no need to define it or explain it to you because you can identify with the threats of reprisals against your folk for helping somebody of African Descent. I know ol’ Ft. Benning and Columbus like the palm of my hand.
Where were you during the Albany Movement? Oh…. You shoulda been there. I am certain that your experiences through how your kin folk ‘helped’ colored folk would have helped us a lot when we were bombed in Albany, Leesburg, Newton and Sylvester.
I apologize for the restless nights your folk endured out of fear of the Klan. At least as they stood on the sidewalk watching my cousins and me get beat up by some of your neighbors they were able to push you out into the street to physically intervene. They did do that didn’t they? Oh …. Well, I rear where you were one of the first to integrate the all-colored school to prove your parents point.
Do you that your fathers ‘black’ friend was unable to get FHA benefits? Knowing about those knives and stuff were of benefit but did you know that colored military typically carried knives to protect themselves from folk who looked like your father? Historically, violence on Black folk was committed by White folk. It’s a fact but is it ‘racist?’ It is ‘racial.’ I had seven uncles and three aunts who served in three different ‘encounters. My father was Regular Army.
Eddie, a person without the power to exercise a threat cannot be a racist because he or she will be eliminated. A person who can, by merely stepping back on the sidewalk’ ore being quiet can support racism and benefit from the ‘first hired,’ affirmative action, preferential treatment fostered by systemic racism and bigotry.
It is unlikely that I, through sharing my many experiences on the receiving end, will convince you of your errors. For that matter, you will never convince me that our discomforts were comparable. Let the next generations resolve this continuing story.
Lock and load.
jmitchell
From: Patricia ToddNow Todd could have kept that $5.02 to herself. Although she has been a victim to the idiocy of the Alabama Democratic Caucus's and Joe "the Jackass" Reed's Alabama Democratic Coalition's homophobia and racial prejudice because they don't want an openly gay, white woman as the representative for the heavily black 54th house district of Alabama, but still... I am not here for Todd's "oh but I understand...blah, blah, blah..." to that assclown Maxwell from northern Jefferson County. Maxwell's ass feels entitled due to his white privilege, Southern upbringing, and being a male, whom clings to his gun because his inferiority complex to make up for his likely "fear of the others taking over this nation".
Sent: Monday, February 11, 2013 4:41 PM
To: Eddie Maxwell
Cc: (all members)
Subject: Re: Gun Control and our Constitutions
Mr. Maxwell:
I am Patricia Todd, a member of the house. I just received this chain of emails and wanted to let you know that I am with you on the gun issue and am saddened by the tone of my colleagues email. All of us have suffered from the racism of the past and I thank you for your civic and thoughtful response.
We all have different life experience that shapes our values. I pray that we can all respect, and, celebrate, our differences. That is what make America the greatest country on earth, scars and all.
This member hears you loud and clear.
Also the Birmingham News' website and its comment section is perpetrating allowing individuals that share this entitled and myopic philosophy a way to pretend to be faux victims via this incident. This is why Alabama is held back because so many white Alabamians whine and dramatize things that almost never happen like this but ignores the true inequities like how majority black school districts are underfunded by the archaic Alabama Constitution along with other institutionalized measures. So pathetic.
Sunday, February 3, 2013
*Deep Breath* Ok
I say a prayer that my heart is protected from hurt and disappointment. The highest one, creator would allow me and my significant other to grow together in the future as united front. We reconcile and build bridges over the wounds and misunderstandings of the past. I hope and pray for the best of him because I do love him as it is true and not out of covert motivations. I pray for my situation, amen.
Saturday, January 26, 2013
Damn, that wasn't hard!
Reverend Al Sharpton made an ass of the whore-monger for sheriff of Pinal County, Arizona on his defiance of following President Obama's executive orders on gun controls. Oh yeah, the good sheriff, Paul Babeau, wrote a pretty little letter without any real explanation rather than bullshit talking points with no validating evidence (just like his argument with Reverend Sharpton)...
Sunday, January 20, 2013
Ahhh, urban radio
Apparently, there back to the same place they were some 4 years ago in the DC market overall 6+ Arbitron ratings. As of December 2012, the station is currently 14th overall in the market. It kind of embarrassing considering CBS hired Jason Kidd, a DMV local to be the station's program director and turn the tide of this wayward ship in 2011. Prior to Kidd's tenure, WPGC began to reintroduce some pop songs only spun on rhythmic contemporary hits radio stations like Z100 in New York, B96 in Chicago, and Power 96 in Miami.
Although the station has officially moved from the Billboard R&B/Hip-Hop panel to the Rhythmic panel in July, its ratings have remained stagnant with only occasional influx of marginally higher overall ratings. The results display that their problems lay with playlist which is a mixture of contemporary hip-hop, R&B, and pop songs. However, the station's mixture of contemporary hip-hop and R&B is mostly chart topper songs from either genre rather than a wider variety of such found on most other urban stations. Although their promotional events like "For Sisters Only" and concerts of the hottest hip-hop and R&B artists mainly targets 25-40 year black particularly black females, but the all-over-the-place playlist is main deterrent. Basically, they have given their core audience, 18-49 year old blacks, a reason to look elsewhere a significant portion of the time.
My solution, it's time WPGC goes back to its roots of being an urban contemporary radio station that occasionally spins pop or dance music but focuses primarily on R&B and hip-hop song titles. However, the DC region hasn't changed to the point that it would warrant them to attempt to sound like Z100 in NYC because the region has a larger than average black population. Also their numbers are abysmal and there needs to be some serious soul-searching on the station's core demographic group (which has always been 18-49 year old blacks). It's bad when Radio One's WKYS is eating their lunch like it is going out of style in the 18-34 demographic group overall.
Sunday, January 13, 2013
Things I don't miss about the Chattahoochee Valley...this incident reminds me why
Things like this idiotic child.
He is obviously a product of this environment. Where blacks and whites intergrating into a social setting is this particular area is damn near impossible.
Anyways, 17-year-old Derek Shrout wrote in a journal that he left at school wanted to commit a violent act against a number of students that attended Russell County High School in Seale, Alabama. Shrout also proclaimed himself a "white supremacist" wanted to kill numerous black students and 1 assumed gay student. He plead not guilty at his pending charges. His parents bonded him out at $75,000 soon as his court arraignment was over. (Probably for his safety known this locale is in the middle of the Black Belt, and loaded with more blacks behind bars than whites whom have nothing else left to lose knowing this about that idiot...)
The killing thing is that some of his classmates noticed a change in his behavior in the past few months. Shorout went from a being a teen dedicated to the JROTC to a one that congregated and focused around others with white power oriented activities even doing the Nazi salute and chant. He apparently is a military brat and relocated with his family from Kansas to Alabama in the past year.
I'm not surprsed at his fellow (white) classmates being so non-chalant about his views on non-whites and other societal minorities. However, what is more embarrassing is the black male student in 1st link being dumbfounded at this possibly happening at Russell County High School. I wasn't that naive in at that age...SMH
Oh course, the media (WTVM/Columbus) doing their job of speaking to familiars to this loon. His mother was saying "he is a good boy" (cue eye roll). However, I thank Gawker for this article because it spells it out in long form why the US media does such dubious things for only white males when everybody else is assumed to be guilty-as-charged.
He is obviously a product of this environment. Where blacks and whites intergrating into a social setting is this particular area is damn near impossible.
Anyways, 17-year-old Derek Shrout wrote in a journal that he left at school wanted to commit a violent act against a number of students that attended Russell County High School in Seale, Alabama. Shrout also proclaimed himself a "white supremacist" wanted to kill numerous black students and 1 assumed gay student. He plead not guilty at his pending charges. His parents bonded him out at $75,000 soon as his court arraignment was over. (Probably for his safety known this locale is in the middle of the Black Belt, and loaded with more blacks behind bars than whites whom have nothing else left to lose knowing this about that idiot...)
The killing thing is that some of his classmates noticed a change in his behavior in the past few months. Shorout went from a being a teen dedicated to the JROTC to a one that congregated and focused around others with white power oriented activities even doing the Nazi salute and chant. He apparently is a military brat and relocated with his family from Kansas to Alabama in the past year.
I'm not surprsed at his fellow (white) classmates being so non-chalant about his views on non-whites and other societal minorities. However, what is more embarrassing is the black male student in 1st link being dumbfounded at this possibly happening at Russell County High School. I wasn't that naive in at that age...SMH
Oh course, the media (WTVM/Columbus) doing their job of speaking to familiars to this loon. His mother was saying "he is a good boy" (cue eye roll). However, I thank Gawker for this article because it spells it out in long form why the US media does such dubious things for only white males when everybody else is assumed to be guilty-as-charged.
Labels:
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Columbus GA,
race,
racial bias,
racial foolishness
Wednesday, December 26, 2012
Oops! Did he say that one aloud?
I think it high past time for somebody to have said this one aloud considering why 99% of most mass shootings are perpetuated by what white males. If everyone else is being profiled and suspected of "being up to no good" then what is good for the goose is good for the gander as well on these methods of criminal profiling. Kudos to Salon contributor and social commentator, David Sirota, for saying this one aloud.
The irony is as some commentators on my buddy V's blog is that "why is that it had to take a white guy to point this one out?" It's troubling that the obvious is avoided until someone of that demographic group is said about most white males. Sorry, but white males tend to be perpetrators of a lot of things in the modern western society and one of them is mass violence.
Labels:
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David Sirota,
Don Lemon,
foolishness,
race,
racial foolishness,
social issues,
violence
Wednesday, December 5, 2012
Fiscal Cliffhanger
Is there truly a fiscal cliff or a dramatic cliffhanger for the US media to run-amok with as usual so they have some headline to keep eyeballs captivated? We have so many things going on around this nation at the moment ranging from the high employment, racial animus at an all time high, faltering infrastructure, and let's not forget the climate change on going.
Now with the psychologically defected exposed nationwide for the racially averse heretics they are, their deranged representatives in DC are now playing chicken with the nation's financial future do the usual "to show that damn nigger in office who's boss". However, what those assholes doesn't realize is that the majority of the citizenry will hold their sorry asses accountable this time not President Obama. Oops, I bet their asses did see that one coming!
Yeah, we have a number of things to worry about right now, so this fiscal cliffhanger shouldn't even be one of them at the moment....
Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Tell us something we didn't know...
Metropolitan Atlanta Rapid Transit Authority (MARTA) brings in the big bucks for Atlanta!
I guess it took 2 studies by my fellow planning/economic development professionals on the academic side to affirm this to be true. The Atlanta Journal-Constitution reported on the University of Georgia Carl Vinson Institute of Government Study conducted a study from 2007 and this year and the findings confirmed this:
I guess it took 2 studies by my fellow planning/economic development professionals on the academic side to affirm this to be true. The Atlanta Journal-Constitution reported on the University of Georgia Carl Vinson Institute of Government Study conducted a study from 2007 and this year and the findings confirmed this:
It's quite amusing that 2 studies had to be published to reaffirm what most of us suspected although the majority of Metro Atlantans rejected the T-SPLOST on the 31st of July. I guess you have to dress it up in a pretty bow and ribbon and then say "See it does work". However, we are in the South were the car is king and the way things are developed and funded around it. At the end of the day, Atlanta and Georgia politicos know that MARTA is the reason why so much of the city's prominent existence depends on this public transit system.MARTA’s spending — its 2011 capital and operating budget was $617 million — supported between 20,000 and 37,000 jobs in Georgia between 2007 and 2011. The fluctuations were caused by differences in annual capital expenditures.Nearly 150,000 workers in the Atlanta area, including car owners, use MARTA for their daily commute.Of the 18 fastest growing industry sectors, 14 employ workers who rely heavily on MARTA.Jobs supported by MARTA’s capital budget provide $500 million to $1 billion in personal income each year.The economic activity of the nearly 100,000 MARTA-dependent workers support another 80,000 additional jobs.
Labels:
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economic development,
mass transit,
Metro Atlanta,
planning
Yeah, another one of these situations...
When will the deranged and white males stop gunning down black male youths because they think they are a threat? I honestly don't know but this incident in suburban Jacksonville will go down as another one of those situations.
Jordan Davis was gunned down last Friday (November 23rd) at a gas station on Jacksonville's Southside while in a car with friends. Apparently, the music in the vehicle was "too loud" for Michael Dunn's tastes. In return, Dunn confronted the teens in the vehicle over the music which led to Dunn getting his gun and shooting into the vehicle hitting Davis. Davis suffered multiple wounds from the gunfire and was pronounced dead on arrival to the Shands Hospital on Jacksonville's Southside. *SIGH*
Dunn was arrested in Brevard County at his condominium and charged the following day. While arraigned before a Brevard County justice as his reason for shooting up the vehicle was him feeling threatened by the black teens. (WTF?) Dunn was extradiated back to Duval County (which is the City of Jacksonville) and had the audacity to say "the teens had a shotgun in their vehicle". (WTF?)
Jordan Davis will be buried in Marietta, Georgia in the Metro Atlanta area.
I knew something was up when actual study showed that anti-black animus was up. This is just more prove that some white Americans have to slow their groove on anti-black & brown racial animus because this nation is becoming more and more racially diverse with time...
Links and photos courtesy of WJXX/WTLV.
Labels:
black issues,
Florida,
hate crime,
Jacksonville,
Metro Atlanta,
racial bias,
racism
Tuesday, November 27, 2012
So....
In the serious of personal blogs on this site. Here it goes...
I just realized I am still in love with my ex from years ago. He recently recently came back into my life. I wasn't expecting him to come back into my life at all. There are a numerous of things that goes through my head while thinking about him including good memories, mixed feelings, and even the bad memories. My heart still feel something for him, but my head tells me to stay on the fence with him in a guarded mode.
About 18 months ago, I had a dream of a wedding and it ironically included myself and this very ex. In the dream, we were standing at an alter and saying a vows to one another and to spend the rest of our lives together. As strange as it was at the time, we weren't together anymore (for nearly 4 months) and were not speaking at all because I broke up and ended all forms of communication with him. Also by that time there was some form of moving on and letting go from that stage of life. As much as I thought that dream was random and improbable at the time, I realized there was unfinished business between us.
Now here we are now communicating and reconnecting to one another. It also displays the unfinished business is apparent. My feelings are still there and I don't know where to go with them. Also I recently discovered he still has feelings for me as well, but his methods of holding them back is totally different than mine. He displayed this to me when he chose to come to me in a time of true need. I then realized he does still care about me and those feelings for me. This is something of hope but also worry.
Part of me wants us to reconnect, reunite, and work on us getting back to together again, but another portion of me is terrified. I am taking this very slow, day-by-day, and displaying concern, care, and consideration of reality of our relationship. We broke up for a reason in the past and we have both moved on, grown, and (for me) experienced other relationships. However, I am also a believer that some people are meant to have something with one another and strangely enough I feel as God/Allah/the Creator is saying we ought to be back together again because our yin-yang dynamics that exists between us and draws us together in a way beyond just platonic friendship.
If he does happens to come across this blog entry then. Will, I want you to know yes I still am in love with you. I do hope and pray that we can work this out in the long run and find a comparable median where we can reconcile and one day grow together. I have chosen to step back and just allow this to play themselves out on its own. Nevertheless, I just want you to know that I do still love you. Call me cliche, but I feel like we are like the Rihanna song "Diamonds".
As they say, only time will tell me what and whom he is to me...
I just realized I am still in love with my ex from years ago. He recently recently came back into my life. I wasn't expecting him to come back into my life at all. There are a numerous of things that goes through my head while thinking about him including good memories, mixed feelings, and even the bad memories. My heart still feel something for him, but my head tells me to stay on the fence with him in a guarded mode.
About 18 months ago, I had a dream of a wedding and it ironically included myself and this very ex. In the dream, we were standing at an alter and saying a vows to one another and to spend the rest of our lives together. As strange as it was at the time, we weren't together anymore (for nearly 4 months) and were not speaking at all because I broke up and ended all forms of communication with him. Also by that time there was some form of moving on and letting go from that stage of life. As much as I thought that dream was random and improbable at the time, I realized there was unfinished business between us.
Now here we are now communicating and reconnecting to one another. It also displays the unfinished business is apparent. My feelings are still there and I don't know where to go with them. Also I recently discovered he still has feelings for me as well, but his methods of holding them back is totally different than mine. He displayed this to me when he chose to come to me in a time of true need. I then realized he does still care about me and those feelings for me. This is something of hope but also worry.
Part of me wants us to reconnect, reunite, and work on us getting back to together again, but another portion of me is terrified. I am taking this very slow, day-by-day, and displaying concern, care, and consideration of reality of our relationship. We broke up for a reason in the past and we have both moved on, grown, and (for me) experienced other relationships. However, I am also a believer that some people are meant to have something with one another and strangely enough I feel as God/Allah/the Creator is saying we ought to be back together again because our yin-yang dynamics that exists between us and draws us together in a way beyond just platonic friendship.
If he does happens to come across this blog entry then. Will, I want you to know yes I still am in love with you. I do hope and pray that we can work this out in the long run and find a comparable median where we can reconcile and one day grow together. I have chosen to step back and just allow this to play themselves out on its own. Nevertheless, I just want you to know that I do still love you. Call me cliche, but I feel like we are like the Rihanna song "Diamonds".
As they say, only time will tell me what and whom he is to me...
Thursday, November 1, 2012
So amount of Americans possessing anti-black hate is up, so...
Guess what the US, you have more anti-black people now than you did 4 years ago! Not really I'm not lying.
It's not really a surprise because there are some many people that hate on President Obama, the sitting president, like they hate on somebody whom is doing something with their lives. Black people beware, we are all in for something fare against more anti-black malice...
It's not really a surprise because there are some many people that hate on President Obama, the sitting president, like they hate on somebody whom is doing something with their lives. Black people beware, we are all in for something fare against more anti-black malice...
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
I'm going to dedicate 5 minutes of my life to say this about black-white SGL dating...
Rarely nowadays do I comment on the racial politics of SGL male dating, but let me be honest about this whole white-black dynamic. Preface, yeah there are more racial combinations in the world, but in the US the white-black contrast is always the most contentious. Back to topic, white-black racial combo in relationships is always tricky. You may ask, "why do you say that?". Well for starters, black LGBTs are still the bottom of the racial hierarchy in the US because "the mandingo, i.e. supposed 'big black dick'", "they are all thugs", "they aren't very well rounded or educated", "they are lazy and shiftless", or "they all have AIDS and/or HIV" stereotype. Many have taken these stereotypical myths and applied to dealing with black males as only cutbuddies/fuckbuddies or hook up only material rather than dating.
In my personal experience, there has been a lot of objectification that goes on throughout the gay/bisexual fold of men in general, but there is a special set of rules that seem to exist just for black-white sexual & relationship interactions. Where the black guy suppose to be the "dominant top with a big dick" and the white guy is "submissive bottom that loves big dick".
Also have to interject the problematic age disparity of some white guys when it comes to dating or being open to having a relationship with black guys. Many will intentionally wait until they are "used up" or 30+ years in age to engage or "explore this" after many of their fellow "more appealing" (in the aforementioned supposed hierarchical terms) are tired of them or unattainable anymore. This perplexes me considering I, like many other black guys whom aren't racial specific, was like this since day one when we encounter white guys whom are much older than us always approaching us like we are "their last resort". My motto is this, "if you didn't want to deal with a black guy when you were a 'hot commodity' then don't deal with one when you aren't anymore".
Now personally, I am not a "top" at all and generally non-discriminatory when it comes to anything including dating although I lean more towards other black guys. I have dated a couple of white guys and have experienced this silliness first hand. I do find this dynamic annoying to say the least. I also find that this expectation to be off-putting when it comes to interracial dating with guys. Let's not forget in the South and in many parts of the US in general, a significant majority still believe in the aforementioned negative connotation about black guys. It's just a double negative as to why I'm extremely choosy about dating white guys, period.
If I get a hint of a reason to believe that person is that way then, I'm chucking up the deuces...
Love is love, and it shouldn't have any color boundaries or limitations because of the social construct known as "race".
Labels:
dating,
foolishness,
LGBT,
race politics,
racial bias,
racial politics,
sexuality
Saturday, October 20, 2012
Uh huh, so you want to deal with NYC...
Yeah, I will say this. I'm not exactly the biggest fan of New York (City) for a number of reasons including it being overrated. So this op-ed piece that appeared on the Huffington Post by Leigh Owen. He basically said in a sort of words, "if you are black or Hispanic, you need to leave NYC, ASAP". This stresses my sentiments of why I am lacking in fascination of that city and its surrounding region. Don't get me wrong it would be nice to see and visit but in realistic terms on livability for myself, nope.
I know somebody that is a former (an ex) that is relocating there and his premise of doing such is because he is tired of the South. His rants included the overzealous nature of the religious particular religious blacks and "intelligent people" in Atlanta and the South in general. Also the fact that one doesn't need a car in NYC as well with 24/7 mass transit. Yeah, it is true that NYC and the Northeast Megalopolis lacks overt religiousness compared to the South and higher than average people with education attainment.
However, that doesn't translate to the devoid of religious blacks because US blacks in general are a very pious demographic group as whole regardless of location. Also I might add that yeah, NYC has 24/7 mass transit but so does Chicago, Philadelphia, and the PATH of Northern New Jersey. I admire NYC for being "that big city" but it is also a very hostile environment for black and Hispanic males due to its screwed up police force (NYPD), stop-and-frisk policy, and trigger-happy practices of gunning down innocent parties. To be plain and simple, it's not a good place to be black and even the US Census reported that blacks have fled from New York in droves.
As quiet as it's been kept, I would prefer Chicago over New York. At least I know what I'm getting into and it has a quaint, charming character that New York lacks which is 5 boroughs battling over whom is the most dominant. All I have to say to him is this, I wish you well and have fun (also learn to be honest with yourself). I'll be in DC or Chicago where those places have mass transit and are more my flavor because I like my cities with character and diversity not braggadocios places with deep seeded racial problems.
Labels:
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Chicago,
New York,
Philadelphia,
racial bias,
social issues,
the South,
Washington DC
Sunday, October 14, 2012
You can tell when some splaboos are miserable souls
Well, pardon the happy couple for being happy. Back in September, Nathanael Gay and Robert Brown decided to wed at the Griffin Gate Marriott resort in Lexington (Kentucky). They even had friends, family, and even fellow line brothers (LBs) of Nathanael's fraternity (Kappa Alpha Psi) in attendance.
Meanwhile, I swear some splaboos are always on the beat being assholes towards black LGBTs that found happiness. The trolls at Bossip always on their jobs of being the "typical gossiping yet judgmental homophobes". I have to give Clutch magazine credit for being quite pragmatic and optimistic because these men decided to be open and comfortable about themselves.
Others including Rod McCullom are reporting that the Twitter-verse was going crazy a couple of days ago with idiots making homophobic notions about the happy couple. I swear it seems like some members of folk would rather somebody be bitter and fucked up like them than happy. Ignorance running-a-mok...
Labels:
black issues,
blogosphere,
Kentucky,
LGBT,
religious foolishness
Monday, September 17, 2012
Applause for laziness, NOT!
This whole referandum that is going to be held Tuesday in Alabama is a croak of sh...well you know the rest. I swear this is why I HATE partisanship in Alabama because all it is about is a bunch of clusterfucking of both sides of the do-nothing cause. Note: Alabama's legislators really don't do anything when compared to their federal counterparts, and that let's you know who truly lazy Alabama's legislative branch is.
Now there is this fear-mongering campaign being led by a variety of special interests and the Alabama Republican Party establishment that wants to pass this so that the state can transfer $437 million from its rainy day fund to cover their asses literally and politically. Also it will cost Alabama $3 million additional dollars in funds to just hold this election. However, the some Alabama Democrats and even stranger bedfellows are against it. Their motives is to trying to make their Republican counterparts work. Also there are some Alabama Republicans that doesn't support this either, but that is another conversation.
The reality caveat is that when Alabama Democrats were in charge they didn't do anything. This is another 3-ring circus that the vast majority of Alabamians perpetuate upon themselves by not doing their homework when electing local representation in the Alabama Legislature.
Le sigh! I need to be truly done with this place...
Now there is this fear-mongering campaign being led by a variety of special interests and the Alabama Republican Party establishment that wants to pass this so that the state can transfer $437 million from its rainy day fund to cover their asses literally and politically. Also it will cost Alabama $3 million additional dollars in funds to just hold this election. However, the some Alabama Democrats and even stranger bedfellows are against it. Their motives is to trying to make their Republican counterparts work. Also there are some Alabama Republicans that doesn't support this either, but that is another conversation.
The reality caveat is that when Alabama Democrats were in charge they didn't do anything. This is another 3-ring circus that the vast majority of Alabamians perpetuate upon themselves by not doing their homework when electing local representation in the Alabama Legislature.
Le sigh! I need to be truly done with this place...
Labels:
Alabama,
Democrats,
partisan foolishness,
Republicans,
State Legislature
Saturday, September 1, 2012
The Suspiciously Quietness of the racially charged incident at the RNC event
The $10,000 question is what really happened when the 2 alternate delegates during the RNC convention on Tuesday pelted CNN camerawoman, Patricia Carroll, with nuts? The unusual silence of CNN and the expected covering of their assess for fear of negative publicity, RNC, seems extremely suspicious. CNN is as many know has been trying to live up to the faux "fair and balance" journalism role that I pointed out in the entry on US media outlets about 2 months ago.
Now after getting word from a specific commentor on the Washington Post columnist, Erik Wemple's blog how on Wednesday, the Alabama Republican Delegation head, Bill Armistead, was interview by Democracy Now's Amy Goodman. The commentor was pointing how he was acting as if he knew whom it was and what state exactly but didn't want to reveal the identity of the 2 individuals. Interestingly, now how they want to reach out to Ms. Carroll and apologize now. I guess to cover their asses if their names are ever revealed...Also something tells me it was 2 members of the Alabama delegation because they would be good for old fashion racial animus considering how it is so involved in ignorance running amok without anybody willing to check them on it. Hell, as I pointed out the Alabama Democratic Party isn't too much better because they placate ignoramuses to keep their rolls up on memberships, can you say Craig Ford from Gadsden?
This whole incident shows CNN needs to stop placating ignorance and expose it. Hell, the BBC is owned by the British government via being a public broadcasting entity yet they will call them out in a heartbeat. It just goes to show how scary and manipulated so easily for fear of reprisal by the GOP.
Now after getting word from a specific commentor on the Washington Post columnist, Erik Wemple's blog how on Wednesday, the Alabama Republican Delegation head, Bill Armistead, was interview by Democracy Now's Amy Goodman. The commentor was pointing how he was acting as if he knew whom it was and what state exactly but didn't want to reveal the identity of the 2 individuals. Interestingly, now how they want to reach out to Ms. Carroll and apologize now. I guess to cover their asses if their names are ever revealed...Also something tells me it was 2 members of the Alabama delegation because they would be good for old fashion racial animus considering how it is so involved in ignorance running amok without anybody willing to check them on it. Hell, as I pointed out the Alabama Democratic Party isn't too much better because they placate ignoramuses to keep their rolls up on memberships, can you say Craig Ford from Gadsden?
This whole incident shows CNN needs to stop placating ignorance and expose it. Hell, the BBC is owned by the British government via being a public broadcasting entity yet they will call them out in a heartbeat. It just goes to show how scary and manipulated so easily for fear of reprisal by the GOP.
Labels:
Alabama,
media,
media bias,
partisan foolishness,
racial bias,
Republicans,
Tampa Bay
Sunday, August 26, 2012
Do I honestly care?
Do I care that on former Alabama Democratic gubernatorial nominee turned Virginia Republican Congressional candidate, Artur Davis, is set to be speak at the Republican National Convention this week in Tampa? Nope.
I still don't care at all, my ambivalence towards his existence because he is still carrying on his brat-like, vindictive behavior because he is still butt-hurt from losing the 2010 Democratic nomination to the Sand Mountain redneck, whom as well turned into a Republican as well, Ron Sparks. Yeah, Davis has spent the past few months galavanting with the Angry White People Coalition, i.e., T.E.A. Twats in Virginia. Oh yeah, he wants so badly to impress those delusional and psychologically disengaged whites in the far-flung exburbs of Washington DC in Northern Virginia.
Meanwhile, Sparks is not only apart of the Bentley administration as an "economic development liaison", which doesn't amount to heap of beans because that position has about as much pull as I do as a being a political consultant at the moment, but he has been quieter than whore in church. This is another episode of the Alabama Democratic Party (ADP) being duped into believing anyone with integrity would actually want to run for anything outside of Birmingham or maybe the other 3 larger cities in that state. Alabama is currently a place where everyone has been polarized long before the current trend plaguing the US as a whole, except it is based upon social egalitarian progression versus status quo and circling of the wagons. The few whom are for social egalitarian progression has been vastly outnumbered by 2:1 to those whom want to maintain status quo and circling of the wagons for their particular interests. (FYI, Redeye, yeah those like Joe Reed, AEA, and the homophobic coalition are a part of the latter rather than former...)
It's embarrassing if you ask me because I'm not the type of person that set my hopes so high for a state that has repeated violated human rights and civil liberties of anyone that isn't a cisgendered, white, heterosexual male. Then again, folk isn't innocent either when many of the state legislative representation they sent to Montgomery are always trying to work against LGBTs, whom are black as well, and whom live in their very districts in Birmingham.
Labels:
Alabama,
Artur Davis,
Democrats,
partisan foolishness,
Ron Sparks
Sunday, August 19, 2012
Who's really the liar in this election season?
I ask this question why so many Americans are whining and saying "both candidates are one in the same". However, as somebody that usually gives a fair shake of anyone prior to discerning whether they are a liar or overall honest individual. In politics, that same rules apply when assessments are made.
Sorry, but overwhelming evidence displays that the Romney/Ryan ticket is just chalk full of lies on top of lies. This is sad when there are actual blogs dedicated to Romney's plethora of lies and even credible journalists are even able to provide long form documentation of the lies. Paul Ryan just plain lies about himself from Medicare to his beliefs in Ayn Rand to his acceptance of actual fund from the 2009 stimulus for pet projects. I believe most people paying attention to the actions for both candidates on this ticket is just done right obvious. However, it has been shown that partisans on both sides are more defiant towards listening to counterarguments of the other side more than anything else this year. (This might be a recipe for an extremely polarized political environment in the short-term future)
Now don't get me wrong I have my problems with President Obama for starters refusing to stand up and issue an executive orders forcing many states to and jurisdictions to recognize marriage equality even it is only civil unionships (for the time being), enforce some form of job programs that enables those of us having trouble getting into the full time employment in the workforce, and allowing the Bush-era tax cuts on households with incomes above $250,000 be sustained for another year. Let me not forget his reluctance to promote marriage equality until Joe Biden opened his unfiltered mouth. However, the President hasn't told a bold face lie about any of his own shortcomings.
Romney and Ryan are lies, plain and simple. It just seems that the President is be a better choice...
Labels:
Barack Obama,
election,
lies,
Mitt Romney,
partisan foolishness,
politics
Saturday, August 18, 2012
Birmingham’s school district debacle
Where do I start? I will say that Birmingham school district is royally fucked if this isn't solved very soon. In my opinion, they seem they have such a dilemma that most urban school districts seem to have these days. That problem is fiefdom mentality when it should even be this way. (Preference, what I am about to say is the honest yet objective truth). When it comes to the Birmingham school district, the whites that mostly now live in the suburbs such as the municipalities Hoover, Vestavia Hills, Gardendale, Fultondale, Clay, and Trussville or incorporated areas like McCalla and Grayson Valley, or western Saint Clair and northern Shelby counties were the ones that screwed up the school district because they didn't want their children to attend schools with blacks back in the 1960s, 70s, and 80s, but it was the mismanagement of the majority black and AEA (Alabama Education Association) led administrators that has led to the school districts problems since the 1990s. This is nothing new because school districts in New Orleans, Memphis, Atlanta, Washington DC, and many others across the South has this problem as well.
The whole "they are trying to take over our schools" mantra perpetuated by the Frank Matthews and the same crew of misguided individuals aided the selection of the ineptitude leadership of William Bell aka "the Jackal". I weep for the socially progressive, working-class, and urban enthusiasts in the city of Birmingham because they have no true allies at all. It seems like instead of find some common ground with those across the city whom want to turn the school district around. Many of these individuals have children in the district's schools that refuses to provide a quality education that is offered in the surrounding school districts. As a result, many are forced to do just day either leave for the suburbs if their children cannot get into the Ramsey High School, the baccalaureate academy at Parker High School, or cannot afford to send their children to one of the private schools in the region if they want to remain within the city. Instead of trying to improve the school district, the board members want to continue status quo so they preserve the jobs of those whom are family and friends in the Birmingham Board of Education central office. Advocates of reform had to turn to the one entity within the government organization that probably has the least amount of regard for the urban school district in the one city that it wish would die more than anything else, the Alabama State Board of Education.
Yeah, sure the current board has attempted to oust the current superintendent, Craig Witherspoon, more than once, but the Alabama Board of Education and apparently the courts are against that. However, it is the unlikely allies that reformers of the school districts battle against mediocrity and the current foes are what are worrisome. Let me not forget the current Birmingham School Board president being ruled a resident of Trussville rather than Birmingham after proof of him not being a full-time resident of the city was discovered. The school district is at risk losing its accreditation with the Southeast Association of Colleges and Schools (SACS) over the recurring problems with specific schools and the majority of the board's idiocy (can you say Clayton County, Georgia all over again). Finally, having a group of entitled urban mostly black bureaucrats are actually making things worse than their white counterparts and have the working-class, majority black electorate in the city thinking this is a racial usurp to get retribution on them by the state of Alabama. Now this is truly sad…
The one bright spot is the fellow blogger, Laura Kate Whitney, of MagicCityMade blog pointed out that Birmingham like most urban places are worth fighting for in the long run. This battle has revealed that racial animus is behind the majority of this foolishness on the black members whom are against district reform on the Birmingham Board of Education. As a black American, I understand and fight for the struggle of a socially egalitarian US by calling out the inequities of all times and bigotry of all. However, the board members needs to realize that sometimes it best to not fight change because all they are doing is inadvertently destroying Birmingham's chances of recovering.
It's not about you guys, it is about fixing this declining school district before there is nothing left. *SIGH*
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